Said God says in His Holy Book: "It is that He created for you wives from among yourselves to find repose in them, and put between you affection and mercy" (Romans 21). Consider the beginning of this verse .. And endured between the folds of the meaning and approach for married life is explain to us the strength of the marital relationship, which is based on understanding, compassion and affection, not by one party but from both sides .. They must charge this relationship constantly shipment of emotions and affection, warmth and intimate feelings mutual .. so integrates the meaning in a relationship of accommodation mentioned in the verse. The relationship of the highest marital relations between human beings it must build the entire community and the extent of communication between the couple and the health and success .. And the extent of imbalance and emotional distress and marital status between the two .. measured by the proportion of successes and failures of this relationship. The age of God and lay the foundations for this relationship and friendship in dealing with vocabulary (love) .. Any love letters with all its meanings beautiful, translate actions and transactions of life between the spouses throughout their journey of marriage, of the screen and the friendliness and modesty and purity and mutual respect, etc. .., housing .. meaning here is all that is inhabited by the self-domesticated .. and by God when he referred says a verse saying (yourselves), ie that Adam and Eve from one entity .. Companions created, therefore, remains the parties in the case of longing for each other. But in some marital relationship and when one of the spouses depends on the performance of its positive role in this relationship is dissonant melodic and become a boring recital of this relationship for both parties and start strings in disruption and lost alphabets Presto marriage and may have come recital of another new tune even more gleeful to replace this cacophony Presto. Relationship to the housing and harmony duo need to ship sustained sensory feelings in all its forms and material, and only shook and collapsed relationship. At the beginning of marriage to be strong shipment emotions flare, and romance tyrant, but over time unfailing love and romance leave home may domesticated or non-static homes home. The leak also apathy and coldness of the relationship between marital intimacy, the couple Faisebha tension and chill and become the animal and purely functional routine;, perhaps because of the weakness of the mutual desire between the spouses to each other .. Parties located prey to neglect and negative trap may be treated from the beginning stems from one of the parties only, but over time, and leaked to the other party as a result chilled feelings, which it finds to him. That brings us to the question: Does love die??? Beginning of love .. Some know that the combination of the mixed feelings of excitement and admiration of others, including the qualities of an ideal accepted and admired by Vttaatql sense of admiration to feel comfortable and housing for the other. Natural sense, and love shall never die - in my view, the modest - love exists within us, but perhaps some of the often misty some rust Ngfah Nubes silence the concerns of life sent by the attitudes of intensive care and be in a moribund condition. But it is contemplating what happens between any couple had a love once inhabited and honestly and not PZEV feelings, we feel that no matter how suppressed and enveloped the senses silently days and cooler nights and the variables of time, this shows the love at the first setback suffered by one of the spouses; If a husband's hospitalization .. You will find that the first will be trying to check on him and his wife, neglected by day .. And vice versa .. Will continue to pair next to his wife until the crisis passes .. And go behind any difference Islands forgotten .. and ever-node tongues, hearts provisional disobedience. Here I can say that what happens between a couple of dumb emotional death of love is not .. As far as what kind of emotional coldness. May be one of the causes: chronic or temporary cooling of the relationship between them, differing interests between spouses, and contrast the cultural, social, intellectual, and the shaping of the man to his wife in the framework of physical pleasure and physical only temporary. There may be silence my husband patients, such as when one is in a state of temporary depression, and on the other side constantly trying to get him out of this atmosphere .. To be a success from God .. There are emotional inertia, which is the status of getting used to each other and getting used to his presence; Life is a routine pattern Mcolba .. The save each other and became the symbol replaces the letter: The eyes and hands and a smile to replace the letter .. This is the result of the length of marriage (ten) he knew each other alphabets were less talk and replaced by square senses and other means .. But we have to say that there is no alternative for the word in any case. Allowing eager to hear the good word and confirmed by light touch, and entwined with dreamy look .. Vtktml image and healthy interaction is correct .. We must distinguish here also between the Provisional and chronic silence: silence is in times of temporary differences and this is something H. .. And preferably not be long silence .. But we must debate and expose the problem completely, so as to eliminate the root .. And resume normal married life. Silence is a chronic nail the coffin of the first marriage. Here is where the heart has lost the compass of its own, and going Faihtar sometimes wrong paths may increase the emotional coldness in the case of the husband or wife, Faisna barrier between them and prevent love to marry and become alienated from the housing and affection to the game of the knockout games. The difficulty is the possibility of the return of their love again .. Have lost their relationship status of gratitude and affection. It must be the cause of this aversion, which led to the duo of this silence between them, must be meeting a friendly and comfortable place in the net and a good time .. until the dissolution and liquidation commented souls accumulations. And assimilation of the emotional silence not be blaming the other and blame and error to load without the other party, but have good listening and reach the core of the problem and the suffering of the other diving. The solution is not a party to the trial of a party as it is search for the texture and style is love, compassion and there is a willingness on the Kllpartyin and held with the intention of overcoming this emotional dumbness .. And openness, including narrowing of the self on a regular basis reduces this reprehensible silence .. Valtuah in life are sometimes out of the mountains of emotional silence in our lives. And remaining after glasnost, underlying feelings and self-accumulated in silence behind this emotional abuse is .. do not go away and remain at home .. may shift from feeling to the subconscious may be carried over from the awareness of the subconscious, but there .. .. and whatever we do will remain hidden wall If transparent barrier between the husband and wife to God to make her way out. There may be a way to vent the accumulation of these located in the unconscious, it may be a way to relieve the self was retaliatory, but will spend the entire married life and will go without a trip away. Another way God called us to it .. In His Holy Book and said in a tight verses and mentioned to us by our gracious Prophet, which is forgiveness and amnesty .. To pardon and forgive those who offended you is a great reward with God, and when we deal with God the Creator .. we move away from the creature aside .. That tolerance of others from the heart and not only with your tongue .. Generosity is a given .. And the ability to overcome what the true self commented .. Summit is a purity and faith. -Restraint and forgiveness of the best human qualities .. He told God in a tight verses: "which leads to forgiveness from your Lord and a Paradise as wide as heaven and earth, prepared for the cautious, those who spend in prosperity and in adversity, who repress anger and forgive people and Allah loves the doers of good" (Al-Imran 133 / 134)) and finally .. Boredom may be one of the main reasons for marital mute or silence emotional. Both parties can try search in the most important reasons for this boredom and try to access method to eliminate the boredom, he could not consult with the trusted and best going to provide him with competent advice Blvd. And friends but avoid crossing in your life; do not lead your problems only to those who trust him .. And only occurred with no dire consequences. Insomnia and you greet each sperm Chattily quench the thirst of emotional feelings and hung out to dry Atef